Hi, Dejan, thank you for clarifying. With "unfinished business" it depends what it is. Minor things like wanting to say something to a loved one or that sort of thing, those messages can often come through via a medium. For example, there were times I would be in a public place and suddenly someone across the room would stand out for me and I'd be 'given' a message that had to be passed along. Or they orchestrate getting the person to a medium, or the message might come through a loved one.

But the bigger "unfinished business" like having been murdered or having had some other deeply upsetting situation left undone or incomplete, those are the ones I was saying don't always know they've left their earthly lives, or they're restless and sort of stuck in between. Like having one foot on each side of a threshold.

In my experience, there are no gates to a place, or if there are, no spirits have ever given me any information like that. They've only ever said they're free to be anywhere, and I also know that although they're still always nearby, they will usually duck out and leave us to it, if you know what I mean? They let us get on with life, let us let go of them. It wouldn't be helpful if they were constantly there, giving messages or intervening etc. Life is for the living but they can certainly come through now and then to say "I love you" or "I know what you're going through" etc.