I’m so very sorry for the tremendous loss you and your family have experienced. I can’t imagine what you’ve gone through. As a parent, I’ve also experienced horrific things that most parents do not endure, things that are often the subject of films and that leave me also dreading the question, “Do you have children?” Or from those who know I do, I hate it when they ask the innocent question about what they’re doing these days. To tell them is beyond embarrassing and humiliating. They cannot help but judge, not just an adult child’s despicable actions but me as a parent.

My point is to validate what you said about how no one can understand your pain unless they’ve experienced it. I’m stunned by some of the awful things people have said to you!!! And that some could even forget and ask about your boys.

I hope it’s okay to share this with you…I’ve been a medium since I was a kid. It sure wasn’t my choice but spirits began communicating with me when I was still in school. The first time was with my two best friends in a dream. They let me know they had died. In the morning, I couldn’t shake the awful feeling. Told my parents about the dream as soon as I saw them at breakfast. They looked stunned. My dad went and got the morning paper and plunked an article in front of me.

The girls had died in a car accident with their family.

Over the years, my abilities evolved and developed naturally. I ended up doing readings professionally including five years as a frequent guest on BBC doing psychic phone-ins as well as mediumship on stage.

I want to assure you that you’re right about there being an afterlife, and those times that you’ve felt your son’s presence, he was really there. Our loved ones stay close and hear us when we speak or even think of them.

I hope this brings you some measure of comfort, although nothing will ever stop you missing your dear boy.

Sending love and a big hug 💖