Ohhhh, Jasmin, can I ever relate to this!!! This is exactly why I ended up with 759 divorces to my, uh, credit??!

It took many years of therapy and other self-healing work - decades - way longer than for you! - before I finally understood the deeper issues and was able to resolve them.

Better late than never.

Only I resolved them so well, I don't want a relationship at all anymore! LOL!

Thank you for another stellar contribution to HHH!!! I'm gonna miss being your editor, but I'm still gonna love reading every single thing you write!!!! 💜