Ooo, what fun! Gosh, sounds like a film!
I would never allow someone to come to my home right away - way too dangerous. Definitely some public meetings, learning more about him, his family, his temperament - e.g. thinking of a guy I dated twice and by the second date, I saw such frightening, explosive anger in a public place, I was horrified. Couldn't imagine what he'd do in private. Well, actually I could. And it was only because people left a pub door open. He stormed over, slammed it hard, stomped back to our table, sat down and smiled like nothing was wrong....
Anyway - I'm looking forward to parts 3-6! Thanks for an entertaining read! I could see / feel all of it!