Thank you so much, Johnny! I appreciate you reading this and also your thoughts about it. You're sort of talking about the same thing, but with a slightly different perspective.

Unless I'm misunderstanding you, what you said is really the point I was making - because your life isn't "great" if you feel like you're wasting time and it's monotonous and have a dull feeling about it.

I was addressing exactly that. If life feels dull and monotonous, and you're wishing it would be different - or at least, FEEL different, then you have to actually DO something different to get that result.

Even if your life is "great" in terms of the partner, the house, the job etc. but something is lacking or not feeling great, if there's something you wish would feel better or be better, it won't happen if you just keep doing the same things day after day. You have to figure out what's missing or what would help, and do THAT!