Thanks for sharing this, Grace. Many people struggle with these kinds of situations. When it can work to care for an elderly parent, great. But sometimes, it's more destructive than anything. It's best to recognise the truth of how this would turn out and act accordingly.

There are professionals to deal with your mother's needs. You don't need to sacrifice yourself or your life for her care. Funny but today I wrote about expectations in my weekly "newsletterish"! They are so, so harmful.