That's not the right link. It's a google search. :)

I'm really glad you have some financial stability!! All six of my husbands were happy to let me walk away with nothing (child support where applicable but nothing for myself). No assets, no portions of houses, no part of their pensions - nothing. Because I didn't value what I contributed as a stay home mom. I made it possible for them to keep their great jobs, get promotions, earn more money - while I made myself less employable every time. Because I did not value myself.

I'm still trying to clean up that mess.