WOW!!!! Shocking!!!!! It would have been bad enough if she'd asked first, after the whole stupid thing of her trying to wreck your lunch because she's on a diet??! BUT given that bit of history, she just helps herself??? WHAT??????

She's got serious boundary issues in so many ways. Wow.

Her choices are hers. Yours are yours. You're out for a meal. You should be able to order whatever you want without a friend expecting you to eat less or eat something different because of her issues. That's SO WRONG.

Well done not stabbing her hand with your fork!!!!